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If you let him, he will break your heart. Yes, stop texting him and give up this long distance fantasy. Please look for a man to date locally if you really want a serious relationship.

I Have been talking to a guy from a game on and off now for 8 months. We keep planning to meet but he has two jobs. I do odd jobs like photography and house cleaning which nuru naked massage it difficult to travel.

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Thats why i am trying to be more understang but we always end up arguing for he is not the type of guy who is willing to talk things out and I miss his sweet messages just like. We recently had a fight and he ignores my messages. I havent had any reply from him for 2days already,he kept on ignoring neecs. I am kinda worried about the situation I just want him to make an initiative and send me a message for I am always the first one doing it.

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